In Memory of Rafir

Rafir lived out his name, the Gaelic word for “blessing.” He took his job seriously as the Farm Kitchen Official Greeter, welcoming each newcomer with an enticing wag, a gentle nudge or a friendly body-lean. Born on Whidbey Island in 1998, he was brought to the farm by Hollis & Anne on a fall day in 1999, after their first sighting revealed the one-year old Rafir carrying a kitten by the nape of its neck, as does a mama cat.

Rare has been the day since that Rafir was away from his duty post at Farm Kitchen, greeting and charming each person who paused to observe his presence. He greeted breakfast guests, recognizing the cars of regular pals. He wooed prospective brides & grooms and befriended 4-legged pals visiting from the city with their people. Day-in, day-out, he supervised the kitchen from his respected boundary just outside the kitchen door, kept company in the office, helped to feed the horses and supervised all outdoor action.

Rafir assisted in the many stages of Farm Kitchen’s development. In the early years of every-Saturday bakery pastries, he hung out with the crowd around the wood stove out front. When the pasture out back gave way to a grass lawn, he found his way to the outdoor tables, keeping folks company. Between guests, he supervised Hollis & Anne as they planted trees and lavender, dug out buried concrete, cleared compost areas and laid out new gardens. Spring through summer, he rested on the grassy slopes near where we worked. During summer & fall weddings and parties, he supervised the setup of chairs & tables, then gracefully ceded his territory to the guests coming in for the day, knowing he’d be back on duty after their departure to patrol the grounds for remnant tidbits requiring his dispatch. During fall and winter classes and the joyful days of Gingerbread House Parties, Rafir welcomed each arrival, then waited patiently for his friends to emerge so he could wag them on their way.

Patience was not his only virtue. When invited, he leaped to catch the high-flying Frisbee with an astounding agility, day or night, and chased wildly at the beach with anyone who would play and around the property at the hint of bear or coyote scent. His delight in running described his part-Australian Shepherd genes, and his beguiling play with the horses revealed his gentle black Labrador side.

In late January the stunning news came that Rafir was incurably ill. After a 3-week hiatus of a true grace period full of visits with friends and many joyous days, he relaxed in an especially happy sunny Sunday of gentle walks and a head-out-the window car ride. Then early on President’s Day, February 21, 2011, Rafir left us, peacefully. His generous, sweet-spirit of blessing will remain a part of Farm Kitchen, always.

 

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#28 Annemarie Juhlian 2011-08-03 03:10
Anne & Hollis - I was just on your website prepping for Saturday evening's wedding and found out that you lost your beloved Rafir.

My husband and I are huge animal lovers and I have found memories of greeting Rafir when arriving for each wedding - sometimes, just a pet and a nudge helped with the stress and tension I keep hidden in this wonderful work that I do.

When I arrive on Saturday night, I'll make sure to look to the heavens and invisibly pet your sweet boy.

Annemarie Juhlian
 
 
#27 Tracey & Steve 2011-04-25 20:38
Oh Anne and Hollis, we just heard. So very sorry to learn this news. What a moving and appropriate tribute to Rafir! We count ourselves among those who were instantly wooed by Mr Irresistible when we arrived for our Farm Kitchen site visit. Between his charm and your warmth, we needed look no further for our wedding venue. We know he lived a happy life with you and his absence will be sad indeed. We are so sorry for your loss. Our best to you both.
 
 
#26 Steve Marcus 2011-04-25 19:59
Oh Anne & Hollis, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. What a sweetheart Rafir was. In the brief time that Tracey and I got to know him around our wedding there this past September, he was exactly as you described. Gentle, friendly and took his farm dog responsibilitie s seriously. Even though we only knew him for a short time I cried knowing he's left us.
Rest in Peace, friend. Glad to have know you.
 
 
#25 Liza Cohen 2011-04-08 01:44
What a beautiful tribute to your loving fur friend! I just cried for your loss-so tender and heartwarming Rafir was. Now in Doggie heaven watching you all run the sweet Farm Kitchen to perfection!
Liza Cohen & Jessica Silvers
 
 
#24 eblack 2011-04-04 19:57
I am so sorry for your loss, Anne and Hollis. Rafir was such a beautiful spirit! He will truly be missed!
 
 
#23 Dallas Shannon 2011-03-31 20:42
I thought it was beautiful tribute, and you can tell by his pictures, he was much loved. :)
 
 
#22 Ali Elsberry 2011-03-30 23:35
On behalf of Nick and myself, please accept our deepest condolences. Rafir was such a gentle soul, and one of the first wonderful, welcoming things that led us to fall in love with Farm Kitchen. May you both find comfort in knowing how very much he was loved!
 
 
#21 Alison Lum 2011-03-13 05:59
I'm so sorry to hear of Rafir's passing - he was such a gentle and caring dog. My heart goes out to you both for your loss. Here's to endless treats and frisbee catching in doggie heaven.
 
 
#20 Kayti 2011-03-05 04:29
This is such sad news. I am sorry for your loss and hope that your hearts are soothed by fond memories of such a sweet friend. Love to you both, Kayti
 
 
#19 Hollis & Anne 2011-03-05 01:01
Dear Friends - All your comments and loving thoughts mean so very much to both of us. Thank you for sharing your memories. Your experience of Rafir gives new light and joy to our own, confirming again how much he belonged to, and loved, all of us.
Blessings.
 
 
#18 Bryan 2011-03-04 19:13
The best greeter of any establishment I've had the pleasure of visiting. Always put a smile on my face to see that smile and happy tail. My thoughts are with you in the loss of a special family member. The site is a loving tribute, well deserved.
 
 
#17 Donalyn Carlson 2011-03-04 17:36
Rafir was well loved by those who owned him and those, like me, who wished they did. You gave him The Best life at the Farm Kitchen, always remember that along with the appreciation he showed in every little thing he did. Please don't be shy about replacing him with another pup sometime soon...Rafir would want you to share your love and sticky buns with as many four legged friends as possible. Loving another pet is one good way we can honor those that went before them.
 
 
#16 Lucy Golden 2011-03-04 02:39
Oh...I'm so saddened to hear of Rafir's passing. He was truly a special pup & I will miss his beautiful eyes & happy tail wags on my visits to the Kitchen. Hugs to you both.
Lucy
 
 
#15 Bill T 2011-03-04 02:17
It is amazing to me – and maybe to you as well – how perfectly, and almost effortlessly-seeming, a creature like Rafir expresses the love and acceptance we sometimes ache to receive from humans. It inspires hope in me that it is possible to love one another without it always having to be done within an emotional economy of, “I’ll give if you give.” Rafir gave unstintingly for the pure joy and happiness of giving. What a legacy any life should be proud to have written above it. I wish my words could convey some solace for you both. They can’t. But I can imagine that the sweet ache that comes from remembering Rafir can also be accompanied by thankfulness for how very much he enriched your life and those of so many others. It’s an epitaph I wouldn’t at all mine having said over me!
With love,
Bill
 
 
#14 DARA GATES 2011-03-04 01:50
My Chocolate Labrador Retriever Hadassah turned 13 on March 2nd. They are loyal friends and the keeper of our secrets. I share your loss.
 

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